Cheska Rian Orquillas

First of all my name is Cheska Rian OrquiIlas and I would like to say Good Afternoon to our respected teacher and to my dear classmate. Please lend me your ears. My speech is all about love. But first what is love? Love is the most powerful emotion a human being can experience, a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection to pleasure and for me love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person and accepting them as who and what they are. But when we hear love what is the first thing that comes in our mind? When we hear it, the word brings up the thoughts of the thing or a person we are most attached to. It can be our parents, siblings, friends or our special person in life. I’m afraid that now love is supposed to be the attraction between two opposite sex. But now in our new generation as we can see and hear news some people are getting married on their the same sex. But since we can’t control their feelings, we need to respect them as long as they are loving each other. But ladies and gentleman love is the beautiful. It hurts you at first and then it teaches you to rise in love. When you get your heart broken for the first time, you can’t imagine loving someone else again or having someone else love you. You worry about almost everything and you can’t sleep at night. You accepted love with wide open arms and desperation, they will say that you should love them and so you did and then it fell apart and left you shocked to the core. You realized that people could be cruel and break your heart, you realized that people could stop meaning sweet things they said to you just yesterday. So when you go into it again, you’re going to keep in mind everything that you’ve learned. The second time you fall in love with someone will still be exciting and you might even talk about moving in together or marriage. It will feel more “adult.”  When you fall in love for the first time you do not think about the consequences of the same. But now you think. You have grown up enough to take decisions, to take the pain, to differentiate between real and fake. Your ex might be wonderful person, but as you know there is always somebody better. Maybe  the second person will love you more, understand you more, you can trust them more, you can feel loved even more. According to me, if someone comes up to you and tells you that they love you and you think that is genuine don't let them go, provided the feeling is mutual. So yes, love can happen twice. Let it happen twice. It is one of the most beautiful gift to mankind. Don't miss this opportunity. Love is a universal feeling which is felt by every human being on this earth but not just humans but also animals and plants everyone is acquainted with this strange emotion. Our culture is driven by our ego’s needs, which means that if we are important, we have a chance of being recognized as wonderful, great, or admirable.   Love is foremost feeling that rules the word it takes various forms and serves various purposes, it is also the most magnanimous emotions and the reason for many other emotions that breeds from it. Every relationship that exists in the world has love in its ubiquitous form in times of hardships and adversity, love prevails and helps a person come over it with a poise and grace.  Is love important? Love is what we live for and so important to us whether  you’re a king, queen, beggar, alone, poor, rich, old and young because we are all human beings, we as human beings long to be with our so called  soul mates. Well there are so many things we need in life to be satisfied, whether it’s a home, friendship, family, a fulfilling career or love because life is better when you have people to share it with. If it were not for love, there wouldn’t have been self esteem and no sense of self worth would mean no life at all in our everyday living, it is love that enhances the daily living and makes life pleasurable and beautiful. People who have never experienced love in their life are often seen to hold aggressive, hostile and emotional nature than those who have, also when love is there, a person can face any appalling situation like emotionally, spiritually and financially and come out of it effectively. Mostly it is seen that when a person has the loving of support of their family, friends or special someone in life they can easily surpass their problems in life. Love is important because if the world had been ruled by haters and weren’t existence, then would it be possible for us humans can find peace and enlightenment? Imagine a world without love?  Not at all, for love is the only emotion that can help everybody.  It is the love that Almighty has for his children and we, as children have for the Almighty that has helped in the survival of mankind. Well first of all there would be no world at all for war and violence would have taken care of that. Love help maintains peace and prosperity and ensures living. It attaches people with the peaceful sentiment and gets rid of negative emotions like violence, aggression, brutality and hostility. It is only when people is not surrounded by love in their life. Life without love is next to mere existence, for love it is what makes life worth living. Love acts as a grease and allows the wheel of life to continue turning.  When we are struck by love, we look at people beyond ourselves and things beyond our needs and concerns. The greatest example of this is Mother Teresa who led her life loving others and attaining love from others. She worked for the betterment of society and children and gave her life for her mission. If there weren’t love, there wouldn’t have been the emotion of care, concern, affection, warmth, devotion and so on in life. The real mark of greatness is shown through love’s actions of kindness, compassion, helpfulness, and caring. You feel this in your heart. You’re on the right path and in your right place if you  feel love in your heart and let it live there to motivate, guide, heal, and influence yourself and others. Let all be done through love. In our culture, we think of love as mushy and weak, even helpless. We tend to think of love superficially as though it isn’t something we have.

Yet, love is our true nature. Love is mighty and powerful to awaken, transform, and even bring healing. Through love we receive understanding, mercy, joy, and forgiveness. Through love most all our emotional needs are met. Through love we feel worthy and valid. Through love we serve a higher purpose and unite in a higher calling. We feel happy. Through love we find our sense of belonging. It may not come through the form of family, but through others who are close to you and who you care about and who show up for you. We operate best when we move through our days with love and goodwill, which allow us to release fear, hurt feelings, and negativity. Only through the power of love do we truly feel we’re not alone and that all is well. Love gives deeper meaning to everything. When we feel loved we feel most alive. When we love others it’s as though we’ve come home. Love is worth our time, focus, effort, and prayers. Everyone says that love hurts but that’s not true. Loneliness hurts, rejection hurts, losing someone hurts everyone confuse these things with love but in reality, love is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel wonderful again. Love is the world’s greatest mystery. It is a feeling that holds the most happiness and the most extreme sadness or anger. Whoever you are don’t be afraid to fall in love with someone else even they didn’t love you back or left you because there is someone who is deserving to your love but before loving someone, love yourself first. Spread the love! So my speech ends here thank you for listening and reading.